military star New england states

november 28, 2026 in KITTERY, Maine

Hi, I am CINDY BOLENDER

Cindy Bolender is an Army Veteran, military spouse, mother, and the New England director for Miss Military Star. She has been involved in pageantry on and off since she was a baby, earning titles at every level-from state to national. She currently serves as the reigning Miss Military Star National Veteran Ambassador, and is a family and criminal law paralegal, Nationally Certified Victim Advocate, and Certified Peer Support Specialist.

As the New England State Director, Cindy is passionate about creating a positive and passionate experience for every contestant while fostering leadership, confidence, and a heart for service. She is honored to help the next generation of titleholders discover their potential and continue the Miss Military Star legacy throughout New England.

2025-2026 New England State queens

AGE Divisions

Little Miss - Ages 4 to 6

Jr. Preteen - Ages 7 to 9

Preteen - Age 10 to 12

Jr. Teen - Ages 13 to 15

Teen - Ages 16 to 18

Miss - Ages 19 to 25 and any Marital status

Ms. - Ages 26 to 34 and any Marital status

Elite - Ages 35 to 50 and any Marital status

Sr. Elite - Ages 50+ and any Marital status

** Division is determined by age as of July 1, 2027 **

required areas of competition

COMMUNITY SERVICE

15% of your overall score! As part of the State scoring system, each delegate is required to contribute a $20 Community Impact Donation. This donation may be personally contributed, sponsored, or fundraised.

50% of the donation will be directed to the State Director’s chosen military charity.
50% will support the Military Star Organization.

This contribution reflects our commitment to service and ensures that every delegate helps make a difference both locally and nationally.

AMERICANA WEAR

25% of your overall score! This is where you get to show your true colors…..red, white, and blue colors that is! Theme an outfit of choice to show your American spirit! Anything goes! It can be a costume (Rosie the Riveter, Statue of Liberty, etc.), something representing a branch of our military, or a casual wear outfit that incorporate our nation’s flag colors in the theming! Be creative!

INTERVIEW

35% of your overall score! This is your opportunity to meet the judges and let your personality shine! Questions will be based off of your registration paperwork. No hard questions here, but an opportunity to show the judges who you are and how well you can articulate your talking points!

You ARE NOT REQUIRED to present a military based platform! As much as we love working with our Veteran organizations and promote them with our year of reign, we want you to be able to speak on the matters that matter most to you too!

EVENING GOWN

25% of your overall score! This is your chance to show the judges your best evening gown presentation and be in the spotlight! Judges will be looking for fit and flattery, but also your poise and confidence as you grace the stage! There is no length requirements for state level, but floor length gowns are required at our national level!

1. WHAT is the commitment?

All state titleholders are expected to proudly represent their state at the National Miss Military Star Pageant. By accepting a state crown, each titleholder makes a formal commitment to attend and compete at the national level. This commitment ensures that every state is represented with dignity, pride, and consistency, while upholding the mission and values of the Miss Military Star Organization.

Participation at nationals is not only an honor but also a responsibility. State winners serve as representatives for their state, their communities, and the organization as a whole. Titleholders agree to prepare diligently, adhere to national pageant requirements, and maintain the highest standards of character, professionalism, and integrity throughout their reign.

Failure to fulfill this commitment may result in forfeiture of the state title and the opportunity being extended to the next eligible delegate.

2. WHAT is the cost?

Competing in the Miss Military Star Pageant is an investment in personal growth, leadership, and service. Each delegate’s registration covers official pageant activities, delegate gifts, competition participation, and opportunities for community service and national recognition.

Optional competitions, sponsorship packages, and additional events are available to enhance your experience. Exact costs vary depending on your level of participation and chosen optionals. Most delegates cover their entry and participation through sponsorships, community support, and fundraising efforts.

We provide guidance and resources to help every delegate secure the backing they need to succeed. For full details, please request our delegate handbook.

3. if i can't make the pageant, can i take an appointed title?

Yes. Not every state has a live competition, but every state deserves a representative! In addition to our state competitions, the Miss Military Star Organization offers appointed titles. Appointed titles provide a unique path to the crown. Instead of competing in a state-level event, delegates apply for their title and are selected by the organization.

This process ensures that every state has representation at nationals while allowing more individuals to join our sisterhood and make an impact in their communities. Appointed titleholders carry the same responsibilities, honors, and opportunities as their fellow state queens and will advance to compete at nationals.

4. do i have to be in the military?

No. The Miss Military Star Pageant is open to all girls and women. You do not have to be in the military or from a military family to compete. Miss Military Star is about celebrating personal growth, leadership, and community service while shining a spotlight on our heroes.

While our mission is to serve and support the men and women of the Armed Forces, delegates do not need military experience to compete. All are welcome to join our sisterhood and represent their state at the national pageant.

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